{"id":1534,"date":"2011-09-03T14:39:53","date_gmt":"2011-09-03T13:39:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pennygolightly.com\/\/?p=1534"},"modified":"2011-09-04T00:10:49","modified_gmt":"2011-09-03T23:10:49","slug":"taking-back-whats-mine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pennygolightly.com\/taking-back-whats-mine\/","title":{"rendered":"Taking back what&#8217;s mine"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>For the last six months I have been legally bound to not write on PennyGolightly.com and today is the first day that I&#8217;m free to do so again, so I didn&#8217;t want to waste the opportunity.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been difficult at parties and other events, people asking me what was going on, why I wasn&#8217;t writing. The answer is simply that I couldn&#8217;t.\u00a0Things were going quite well with this site in January and February this year. It was a lot of fun writing articles and chatting with like-minded people, the blog was mentioned a fair bit in the media and I was getting commissioned to write some interesting pieces.<\/p>\n<p>Then came a full time job offer &#8211; not something I&#8217;d been angling for, but it sounded good. The only catch was they wanted a clause in my contract that stopped me writing on this blog. There was talk of non-competition, there was talk of me bringing my blog content over to them. It seemed reassuring, so I signed on the dotted line.<\/p>\n<p>In reality it turned out to be a gagging clause, and I ended up with nowhere for my real voice. I was suddenly not free to do things I&#8217;m good at, or to have perfectly nice, pleasant, harmless chats with other readers and writers.<\/p>\n<p>Losing your outlet for your natural writing voice is devastating. Right now I feel like I&#8217;m recovering from a physical injury, like my throat has been slowly crushed. Like so much time and creativity has gone to waste.<\/p>\n<p>The saddest thing of all is that no gagging clause was ever needed. I have no intention of ever naming the employer. I will never make public their business plans, or write about how their employees behave, or how I have otherwise been treated. Other people have done this to them recently, but I take a rather dim view of that sort of behaviour. It just isn&#8217;t my style, and it strikes me as completely undignified and lacking in class.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, here I am, six months down the line and in nowhere near as cheery a position as I was in this February. I&#8217;m looking at the tattered remains of my once-lovely site and wondering whether I have any hope of sweeping away the many cobwebs and breathing some new life back into her. I&#8217;m wondering whether it&#8217;s even worth trying.<\/p>\n<p>So, dear PennyGolightly.com readers &#8211; if you still exist &#8211; it&#8217;s over to you. Shall I try to get the old blog back up and running again? I&#8217;d like to hear your thoughts. If you&#8217;d like to express yourself publicly (oh what a thrill) then please leave a comment below, or if you&#8217;d prefer to contact me privately then you know the drill: penny@pennygolightly.com<\/p>\n<p>Would somebody please come and pick me up? I&#8217;ve landed.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For the last six months I have been legally bound to not write on PennyGolightly.com and today is the first day that I&#8217;m free to do so again, so I didn&#8217;t want to waste the opportunity. 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